Webinar: Listening to children when they are children

March 31, 2026|12:00 PM AEDT

Australian family violence services and courts are under pressure to hear children's direct experiences amid rising child protection notifications and post-2024 reforms that demand their voices shape safety decisions.

Key takeaways

  • Recent Australian family law and domestic violence policy updates require children's views to be actively sought and given weight, but inconsistent practices risk perpetuating harm or excluding their input.
  • Children exposed to family violence suffer measurable long-term effects including mental health disorders and cycle of violence, with thousands affected yearly in Australia driving urgent calls for better participation mechanisms.
  • Tensions persist between protecting young children from distress in recounting experiences and ensuring their right to be heard contemporaneously, complicated by cultural and age-related challenges in implementation.

Children's Voices in Family Violence

In Australia, where family and domestic violence remains a national crisis, attention has sharpened on the approximately one in four children who witness it. Policy and research increasingly stress that these children are not mere bystanders but rights-holders entitled to express views on matters affecting them, as reinforced by the UN Convention on the Rights of the Child and echoed in recent family law amendments.

The push stems partly from evidence that delaying or adult-mediating children's accounts can lead to inadequate safety interventions, prolonged exposure, or misguided court orders in custody and protection cases. With child protection systems strained—evidenced by high notification rates linked to domestic violence—failing to listen effectively heightens risks of trauma entrenchment and intergenerational patterns.

A key trade-off lies in methodology: how to elicit authentic input from very young children without causing harm, while avoiding tokenism that satisfies legal checkboxes but ignores developmental realities. This intersects with calls for culturally responsive approaches, particularly for Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander children disproportionately impacted, where Western frameworks may inadvertently marginalize community knowledge.

Broader implications include resource allocation—training professionals to facilitate genuine participation demands investment amid budget pressures—and potential resistance from systems historically centered on adult victims or perpetrators.

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